I  stopped by our local thrift store
To make a small donation
To pass along some nick nacks
I had found, while on vacation.

After dropping off a cardboard box
Some books, a vase and dvd’s
I looked out of the window
And there before me, I could see

A dumpster filled with Teddy Bears
Stuffed puppies, kittens and more.
I couldn’t help but gasp, as I realized
Just what this dumpster was for.

Their faces badly scratched and torn
I looked on in disbelief
I found myself so outraged
That I cried aloud, “Good Grief”!

No children to appeal to
No rescues, no negotiations
No one seemed to even notice
Their cries of pain and indignation.

Now, I realize what can happen
When you toss your furry friends aside
If your mom does not hang on to them
They might make their way inside.

Inside a dirty, smelly dumpster
It hurts to see them there
Forgotten, dumped and tattered
No one to hug, to love or care.

I know,  they’re just stuffed animals
But, they’re more than just a toy
They can offer tender comfort
To a lonely girl or boy.

So, keep in mind the heartbreak,
When your childhood treasures are all gone
Don’t let them end up in a dumpster
Where they surely don’t belong.


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The Longest of Goodbyes

Broken into pieces,

Shattered and afraid.

I see it in your eyes,

An empty silent gaze.

I hold your hand, in my hand.

Not knowing what to do.

You’re lost to me forever.

I can’t fix this part of you.

For years, I’ve watched you slip away.

Becoming frail and oh so weak.

A man of strength and stature.

I watch in disbelief.

By a demon, you were taken.

By a force that knows no cure.

This sad and empty feeling

Too painful to endure.

A twisted maze of tangles.

Too many to untie.

The light’s turned into darkness,

In this …. The longest of goodbyes.


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Happy Halloween

Happy, Happy Halloween
To scary ghouls, who make us scream!
With terrifying sights and sounds.
Such horror lurks, below the ground.

Arise, prepare to shock and scare
The unsuspecting, if they dare
To walk alone from door to door
To beg for candy, treats and more.

The witches wait, beneath the moon
For kiddies who will pass by soon
The cauldron bubbles, the night is young
All Hallow’s Eve has now begun.

Looking for the perfect treat
A small one passes on the street
The smell of candy’s in the air
A traveler yes…. without a care.

Snatch him up, don’t let him go!
The moon shines bright, on those below
The ambers burn, so hot the cauldron
So sweet the flavor…. of little children!

A thankless boy, you best be not
For fear, you’ll end up in the pot!
A little boy makes, such fine cuisine
For goblins, freaks and other fiends!

Best to learn, to stay in groups
Don’t wonder off, your neighbor’s stoop
Say “thank you”, when a treat is given
By the dead, or those still living.


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Save Our Planet

     I was watching the news on TV last night and crying!  Hurricane Harvey had passed thru Houston, Texas. They were showing rescues, of some of the residents of  Port Arthur, Texas and from local towns and communities outside of Houston, as well.  Some of the people who had lost their homes, were financially well off.  Some were less fortunate.   Hurricanes do not discriminate.  They hit anyone and everyone in their path, to include the rich and the poor!  Unfortunately, some people don’t have the money  to replace,  what they have lost.  Some have flood insurance and can rebuild, others are  simply “out of luck”,  and at the mercy of FEMA and the Red Cross.
     I am grieving over the loss of life, resulting from this disaster!  Two young men with a boat, who volunteered to help rescue victims, became stranded by flood waters! They were, inadvertently  swept into an area , with downed power lines.  They were electrocuted!!!!! There was  an additional report , about a young mother who drowned,  while trying to save her toddler! It was an image, that  I will never be able to erase, from my mind.  The three-year old , was found clinging to her mother’s body, as the two floated down a river! These are , but a few of the  countless reports of deaths, resulting from Hurricane Harvey! It’s a disaster of epic heartbreak!
     A scientist was shown testing the flood waters, by collecting a random sample of water, in the street. The water, the people on TV are shown wading in,  is full of bacteria, feces and chemicals.  There are mass quantities of refineries, in the Houston area…leeching out GOD KNOWS WHAT!   They’re not just releasing toxins into the air, but now contaminating the flood waters, as well!
     The water has entered their homes and saturated their chairs, couches, beds, etc..  The walls of their apartments and homes, the floors, the ceilings, their kitchen cabinets,  their appliances ….all ruined!  I feel so bad,  for  the loss of everyone’s irreplaceable, sentimental possessions, and photos, as well.  It’s all,  so incomprehensibly sad!
     There are snakes, alligators, fire ants and all kinds of bugs in the water, too!  You’d think it was  something out of a Science Fiction film, except it’s real!!!!! It’s an absolute, alarming  health concern, not just a question of material loss!
     Unfortunately, it’s not over!  They are still having to let more water out of the reservoirs , to avoid collapse of the local dams. Another hurricane is brewing out in the ocean,  It’s  a looming threat, which would wreck more havoc and destruction, upon those in its path!
     One of the main problems,   is overpopulation and over development of homes and businesses,  in Houston.   The traffic in Houston is horrendous, because there are just too many people, living there!  When you have more people, you have more construction, thus taking away the natural ground and replacing it with cement and pavement, which does not absorb water.  Add to that, the fact that beneath the top soil is clay!!!!  The water that fell to the ground, had no place to go!!!!!
     This problem was partially created by the government, too!  The State regulators did away with the laws,  that would have protected the environment.  Everyone is out to make money!!!!!  They deny Global Warming and turn their backs on preserving our natural habitats, in favor of high rises and money-making businesses!   “They paved paradise and put up a parking lot”!  Joni Mitchell was spot on!!!!!
     Global Warming is a reality!  The glaciers are melting and there is more flooding occurring than ever before, all over the world…. not just in the United States.  I am just
so sad,  sad for the wildlife, sad for us and sad for the future of our planet!!!!!  And now, they  are doing away with even more regulations, allowing corporations to dump their waste and by products,  back into our lakes and rivers, thus contaminating  our water supplies!!!!!
We need Captain Kirk!!!!!  We need The Federation!!!!!
We need to try and Save Our Planet, before it’s too late!
Photo by Kevin Demmer.

So Easily Replaced….

It’s my reality, not yours.

This fantasy, I’ve built within.

You were a player, not real.

Just a figment, an imagining.


It was just a dream, I had.

You were never really there.

I imagined your face, your smile,

The chemistry we shared.


I placed my heart, upon my sleeve.

All my hopes and dreams there, too.

Believing, in the passion,

Of the love, I felt for you.


But, this isn’t love, I am feeling.

It’s an illusion, a mere obsession.

A fixation, just a memory.

Of my own, heartfelt creation.


Before I knew it, it was over.

My dreams and memories erased.

Didn’t take you long, to find another.

I was so easily replaced.


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So you want to buy a condo on the beach?

The thought of living on the beach was a dream come true, but as the saying goes…”Be careful what you wish for!” The view from my balcony,  in Cape Canaveral was absolutely spectacular…. fourth floor, corner unit , with a panoramic view of the ocean, the port and the infamous Cocoa Beach Pier.  From my balcony,   I could watch the Disney Cruise Ships making their way in and out of port, rocket launches from NASA, and the most incredible sunrises, that you could ever imagine.  I could be at Disney World  or the Orlando International Airport , within an hour’s drive. All of this for a fraction of what it would cost, to buy a house or bungalow of my very own, along the shore line. That would take several million dollars!

Condo living is expensive. What I didn’t realize however, were the hidden costs of this venture. Of course, there’s your mortgage, your monthly maintenance fee, your taxes and your insurance. The maintenance fee is something, that all of the unit owners pay into, to maintain the cost of running the building. ….like lawn care, pool service, garbage pick up, etc.. I was fine with all of that, but later was blindsided, with what they call “assessments”.  Now,  that’s where they hit you and hit you hard! An assessment is money,  used for major repairs on the building itself…construction costs….renovations, etc..  The problem is , that you don’t get to decide , when to make the repairs! You cast your vote, but the decision is based on need and an elected board’s majority decision.

Assessments  could be $1,000, $10,000, and up, depending on the cost of the repair, and the age of the building!  Cost of a new roof on an older building, could run several hundred thousand dollars, divided by 40 or so, plus or minus (considering the size of the building),  and the number of unit owners.  There’s no ceiling on the cost of assessments. No pun intended!

But don’t let me digress….money isn’t everything! Bottom line, if you want to live on the beach, it’s going to cost you!

Sadly, I opted to sell my condo. My decision to sell, was not about the monetary costs, but rather quality of life.  There were 48 units,  in my particular building.   47 were owners and one unit was occupied,  by a renter. The renter had the best deal of all. He paid a fraction of the cost of owning the condo, but was able to enjoy all of the amenities:  beach frontage, the pool, use of the grill, and a garage for his car. He’s lucky !  Better off!  Best of all , he is spared the ultimate spoiler of condo living….. the politics!   I had rented,  at the building next to mine, before purchasing my condo and got along with everyone. Renting does have its advantages!  I was spared all the decisions and confrontations, required of owners.

The problem for me,  was the communal aspect of condo living.  You see , it’s all about sharing. I thought that wouldn’t be a problem. I consider myself  to be a fair-minded person. I banked on my belief, that people are generally kind and fair.  But, unfortunately, some people have their share of issues.

It  was an awakening for me….a harsh realization, that people in general , can be difficult! Here I was, on the beach where almost everyday is gorgeous…. full of sunshine and salty fresh air, but unfortunately people bring their baggage with them, wherever they go, and that includes , the beach!

“Snowbirds”  occupied over half of my building. Snowbirds are people, who don’t live on site, year round. They usually own a  home in another state and drive down, to enjoy their vacation condo once a year , for a period of three to six months, (during the winter). They pack everything  into their suitcases and into their cars, and bring it with them,  across state lines. They park their cars on site, unpack their personal belongings and are sure to carefully remove their baggage, as well. This baggage consists of their anger, resentments, jealousies and all around petty and mean-spirited feelings, towards others.

I guess it’s unfair to generalize.  Let me say,  “the snowbirds living in my building”, had issues… as opposed to ….all snowbirds! Some owners have owned for years. Some have newly acquired  units.   But, at my particular condo ….when you gathered a group of owners together, you could  count on the inevitable mob mentality, raising its ugly head! At least, that was my experience.  Ask anyone who has ever attended a condo board meeting.  Most,  are not enjoyable! On more than one occasion, heads began spinning, vile and hateful dialogue was exchanged, and a spirit of hateful rigor, completely engulfed the room.  If the board meetings  weren’t so incredibly abhorrent, I might have found them somewhat amusing.

Each condominium has a board. Our board was made up of five elected members. The president sets the tone,  at board meetings.  At my condo, anyone who dared to speak out against the opinion of the board members, specifically the President of the Board,   would be  chastised by the group of fellow owners. New owner’s opinions were considered suspect. New ideas and suggestions,  were met with scorn! Fellow owners vehemently objected to CHANGE! Unfortunately, “change” is the one thing , that condo owners fear the most! It is their kryptonite! At the point, when the tar started to boil and the feathers started to fly,  I realized…. that I needed to move on.

I ultimately decided to sell my condo and venture further , down the beach.  My new condo is a townhouse. I like my neighbors, I love the community and confess that I haven’t attended any of their board meetings. I have acquired access to a tennis and racquetball court, the use of three pools ( I prefer the lap pool),  a large community room, an observation deck and a full gym.  I am happy to say that I pay less maintenance and enjoy more amenities, than I did before.

The same group of people have been running my current condo for several years and all of my neighbors are cheerful and seem happy!  I have yet to disapprove of any of the decisions made by my current board. I am on a mailing list and am informed about matters pertaining to my community. “Life is good”!

If you are considering purchasing a condo, my advice is to do your homework and be sure you have some idea about the climate and the emotional energy of the current owners.  It will make your beach experience …. so much  more enjoyable.  And, remember , that life is short!  I really do love “Sandy Toes & Salty Kisses”!  Beach life truly can be….. an  amazing experience!